The word 'adjustment' seems very weird
和解，这个词听起来非常别扭
but please believe me
但请相信我
adjustment is the key of happiness .
和解是幸福的重要
Always make your point,
假如你一味表达我们的看法
just think about yourself,
只想着自己
being selfish etc.
一直自私自利
Being selfish is good for a moment,
自私或许会叫你一时感到畅快
but being selfish means making distance with everybody,
但自私也意味着与每一个人都维持距离
with friends, family.
与朋友和家人维持距离
Being selfish means hurting others unnecessary .
自私意味着非必须的伤害其他人
Adjustments means you truly love a person or your family.
而和解却意味着你真心爱一个人，爱你的家庭
Non-adjustments means you are selfish.
不同意和解，意味着你的自私
Adjustments means giving respect
和解意味着付出尊重
and Non-adjustments means you live only for yourself.
不同意和解，意味着你只为自己而活
Adjustments means creating a happy family
和解意味着你可以打造幸福的家庭
and good atmosphere around you
在你周围打造欢乐的环境
and Non-adjustments means hurting everybody for your own sake.
而不同意和解则意味着出于我们的目的去伤害别人
Adjustment is tough ,
和解是一件困难的事情
it is very hard to go against your wish for others happiness
违背我们的心意，却要考虑别人的福祉，这的确非常难
but believe me
但，请相信我
this tough course gives you a lifetime happiness
这艰难的一课，会给你带来一生幸福
and lots of blessings .
和无数祝福
If you will not adjust,
假如你不和解
nothing will happen,
什么都不会改变
things will go as they are going.
事情会只能自然的进步下去
your happiness will be lost somewhere.
你的幸福会在某处失去
We have to learn to adjust
大家需要掌握和解
because it is a part of a life
由于这是生活的一部分
and of course
显然
we are not living on this planet alone.
大家不是生活在这个星球上唯一的人
People are adjusting with us
别的人也要学着与我和解
so do we have to.
大家也要掌握这样
In short,
简而言之
I would like to say that
我想要说
if want to be loved by everyone
假如你想要身边的人爱你
then you have to learn to adjust,
那样，你就要掌握和解
either the day is not too far
若非这样，总有一天你会发现
when you will be alone in your life.
你的日常孤身一人
How much you adjust,
只须做出一点和解
you will be flooded with friends
你就会被亲朋好友包围
because non-adjusting people always remain alone,
由于不去和解的人永远都孤单
frustrated ,
备受挫折
depressed etc.
深陷抑郁
Happiness always gain in giving happiness.
幸福都是从给予幸福中获得的
Learn to adjust
学着和解
if you want to be happy.
假如你想要获得幸福
Always making others adjust for you
假如你一直强迫别的人为了你和解
means grabbing their happiness in your stubbornness
这意味着你把别的人的幸福操纵在你的固执之中
but remember one thing also,
但你还应该记住一件事
no one should always adjust.
无人应该永远妥协
Remember one thing as well
记住一件事
that don't always adjusts
不要一味的和解
because always making adjustments
由于一味的与别人和解
means reducing your price in others eyes.
会叫你在别人眼中掉价
If you want to be loved then learn to adjust.
假如你想要被爱，掌握和解
If you want to be flooded with friends learn to adjust.
假如你想被朋友包围，掌握和解
If you want to be happy then learn to adjust.
假如你想获得幸福，掌握和解
